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godspeed06 · 09-24-2004, 02:55 PM

no, i could definitely see how it gets harder as you enter your second and third year.

callen · 09-26-2004, 12:11 PM

Originally Posted by godspeed06

no, i could definitely see how it gets harder as you enter your second and third year.

nah dude its never easier nor harder. getting girls is easy. its up to you to read the signals she gives out. yah maybe first yr there are lots of young girls 'let loose' at college, but its not like those same girls all of a sudden decide they no longer want men the next yr or yr after. its all about timing, and making the right choice on who you want to go after. also if ure a nice enuf guy, not dead fucking ugly, and treat girls with respect you should do just fine!

blinkmeat · 09-28-2004, 08:37 AM

Alright ready?

So I've emailed this girl and basically asked her to hang out, go to a bar, or do whatever but she's choosing not to entertain the idea. Instead I get...

"It's alright about Saturday I for one know how it feels to be busy all the time.Â* I only work on weekends and rarely at Starbucks now.Â* I do work on the weekend at Chapters though: Sat 2-1030; Sun 1-930."

So now what?Â*

ZfrkS62 · 09-28-2004, 08:55 AM

figure out when her lunch break is, swing by and offer to take her to lunch.
tell her you were in the area, make it seem like more of a surprise.
she's played this game before, so i think she is going to try and keep the ball in her court a little longer than she normally would. you may eventually have to play by her rules, i just didn't think it would be this soon...

blinkmeat · 09-29-2004, 07:25 AM

Then I get this;

"Hey, just a little update.Â* I'm now working on Friday night at Starbucks 6-1030.Â* If you can't make it in any of those days maybe we could arrange something else."

Are the tides changing here or am I just hoping?

possessed_beaver · 09-29-2004, 10:00 AM

yeh the tides are changing,
dud please stop worring about this one chick!!!
go out and game more girls, i guarante with greak expectations come great disapointments, who knows she probley snores in bed!

callen · 09-29-2004, 11:19 AM

i dont understand this girl. you need to give us some more background info. how well do u know her? i mean it seems strandge she only wants to meet you at work, in a public place where there will be limited time to speak with you. it seems she is only interested in the exchange of the cd....you have only one choice i think. it is to tell her you are interested, and you would like to take her out sometime. if she declines, then sorry my friend, she isnt interested, get ur cd, and find a new girl. if she says yes, (you should have a plan already in place when u ask her) for best results, ask her in person...if she is unsure or cant commit, walk away she doesnt want you, that or she aint worth the effort.

blinkmeat · 09-29-2004, 12:07 PM

Exactly, she's blurred the line between Yes or No. I just can't decifer it... Hahaha this is so stupid

ZfrkS62 · 09-29-2004, 12:16 PM

wait, wait, wait!! she keeps telling you what time she get off work, so go swing by and meet her as she's getting off. that way you two can start a conversation and before you know it you'll have talked for like 45 minutes to an hour (maybe more depending on the topic) that way you'll have established the talking foundation. right before turns to go, ask her for her # so that you can talk without having to log on.

or if her shift ends in the after noon, take her out to eat after she gets off. Let the conversation go where it may during the meal. Eventually she'll start fishing for compliments during the meal if she's even slightly interested, all you have to do is bite!

and if things don't work out...take P.B.'s advice and go find other chicks that will be less of a hassle.

Exactly, she's blurred the line between Yes or No. I just can't decifer it... Hahaha this is so stupid

at this stage in the game, that's all they do.

mit5005 · 09-29-2004, 09:44 PM

This is a really good topic for me too because I don't have the best luck with women. You guys keep talkin and I'll keep takin notes

blinkmeat · 09-30-2004, 12:03 PM

Check this out. She emailed me to ask me to get together... within the time and place constraints (keeping control) of course.

This was hard

possessed_beaver · 09-30-2004, 12:12 PM

Originally Posted by blinkmeat

Check this out. She emailed me to ask me to get together... within the time and place constraints (keeping control) of course.

This was hard

looks like the tide's could of turned, she is now in you're reality and chasing you?

don't stuff it up by "clinging" to her!

blinkmeat · 09-30-2004, 02:52 PM

I'll be sure not to cling... This girl was sooo much work though, I find her to be like 2X hotter now. Now where to take her? What to do? Think I might just have her come over meet the boys ... rock the gonge... maybe smokin is a bad idea... scratch that.

Thanks for all the advice, I'll tell you how it goes

ZfrkS62 · 09-30-2004, 03:33 PM

keep it simple for the first one. Casual dinner/lunch (depending on what time you get together) If you let her meet your friends too quick it may come off to her that you just want her to be one of the guys and nothing more. i'd wait until after the 3rd date to introduce her to the crowd.

blinkmeat · 09-30-2004, 05:15 PM

seriously?