they say hand wash for the first several months to allow the paint to harden.
i cant remember the name of the wax i use, but the cost is roughly 10$ usd/ bottle... and is the best ive ever used... its in a red container.
microfiber towels from turtlewax are great to keep a good shine, and honda polish 6$ spray is great for the in-between car washes, and waxes period to keep that exterior as reflective as possible.
for the interior, i recomend armor all ... i think its called extreme shine formula... its a richer shine then normal armor all, and the same uv, and corrosion protectants. i also use this on my door seals to keep them working as good as new. i do the the armor all on the seals every oil change to keep it regular.
mobile 1 10 w 30 is what i use, with lucas oil treatments.... but since you have a new car, that may not be nessesary yet
oh, and dont break past 1/2 the redline until your first oil change. enjoy the new car