its pretty standard in 'mechanics andthermodynamics of propulsion':part 2 air breathing engines
combined with some chem I, and II knowlege base
also, i neglected to mention density issues with flying through the volcanic ash cloud. that would explain the shaking, in addition to the engines sputtering. a less dense clould would cause the plane to drop, while the altimiter shows a rate of asent, while the sulfer clould would cause just the opposite(i think its more dense then air?)
yes, under flawed early 'perfect fluid theory' models it would be much more possible to superheat the wings at such low velocities. with the leading edge pressure being quite high, it would be highly unlikely that any ash would even touch the wing, save unless it was a rather large piece, and the plane flew directly into an eruption
at high air velocities the viscous boundry layer is so thin, the pressures falls, and velocity rises: in effect routing almost all particles around the body. you have that quite right