'evening gents...no im not thirsty...
personally i'd rather not pursue some1 who's in a relationship... but somehow i doubt i'd be able to stop myself if my "dreamgirl" ever were to give me the more-or-less green light (which wont happen btw)
decide for yourself if your current relationship is of such a closeness that you dont want to risk losing it (meaning you'll just sit tight and wait for this douche to disappear (the word disappearing brings other ideas/tactics to my mind
)), or that you've simply been drooling over her from a distance, meaning you haven't really got anything to lose...