Have you ever met the 'perfect girl' ?
 

Well, I have... and I've known her since 2000.

My promlem? Well, I have not yet attained the success I need to have, and the previous date didn't quite get there. I will alway compare all women I meet, and date against her

I have long been a user of the 1337 BFP scale.

Body (rating) 1-10
F (face) 1-10
P (personality) 1-10

If any one of the ratings is too low, then it is quite impossible to date the woman in question.

fairly recent women have been
8, 7, 8
8, 9, 6
7, 7, 8
9, 9, 9 - well she chated, so something was wrong in the personality at some point

... but the prefect girl?
I know her, I have known her for some time, and she has become my "elenore" of women.... a unqustionable 10,10,10

how do i judge my scale?

body.... proportionate, nothing is obtusely disproportionate
face..... traditional woman look... smaller nose, not too large mouth, and very proportionate w/out future jowels to massive amounts.
personality.... well, this one is even more subjective then the rest, but basically outgoing, charisma, intelegence, social abilities.... and perhaps other things i'm missing

I cant yet find my photos of her.. but once i do, i'll post them here, or at least one.... but she is perfect.... there is no pedistal; but that is where she would be if there was.

No, I haven't. But that's a nice rating system you've got going there, although for me, I tend to view a person as a complete package before rating them.

what is the complete package?

BFP mate, it makes the whole package IMO

Well you're looking at all three components separately to make up the "complete package". I would just look at the person and rate her using a singular scale. Like 8/10, rather than "7, 8, 9" or whatever.

I have met one which was close to 10-10-10 when I was 17. She even become a model but I never dare to ask her a dating ...
And perfect body doesn't mean perfect for "the rest" :P :wink:

At a party, some guy once stomped on my foot because I was flirting with the chick he later left with, and he felt threatened. She must have been worth it.

I like to use my own little system -

I go by the number of drinks she'd have to have to go home with me.

For instance a 2 is probably pretty ugly.

But a 37 is a smoker :wink:

Ever think that maybe the reason you haven't found someone is because of this? I'm just saying.

Yea, we all want the hot chick, but you might end up in love with one that fell from the ugly tree and hit every branch then rolled down the ugly hill into the ugly pond. Life is like that.

nice to see people being a wee bit more critical on who they go out with. if you're not that picky you end up with very costly problems. :)

I am not looking for girl known as "super hot chick" so every male including dogs will have hard on, I am looking for a girl that is "super hot" in my eyes and that doesent mean she will be super attractive for everyoneelse if you know what I mean, I think everyone have experienced that you met a girl that is nice looking in general and beautiful for you.
From my experience you can fall in love with a chick wich is not very much attractive but a gold character and everything but then you realize you gonna see her for the rest of your life, wake up in the morning and see her again...etc and that makes you think ;)

Conclusion: ugly or FAT - no way; dumb - hell no! <- that is what i cannot really stand the chick who is plain dumb even if she is beautiful like hell dumbness will destroy everything.

I am with my perfect girl, she is Swiss, hot and has a great personality. :D

Yeah well I am critical like any other man but I think Ive found the right girl for me at least. Im meeting her again next sunday so Ill give an update :wink:

Had a weird and highly bad experience with one of these "PERFECT girls"

She was perfect - Looking - Thinking etc - then ... Then we had a highly lustful thing that ended in a painful dissintegration.

Just saying, be careful she isn't the once perfect one :|

yeah, it should've gone in the other forum... i'm glad to see so many responces :)

you cannot include a personality trait if you dont talk with them... its the part of the scale that requires some work. there are tons of girls who are 9-10, 9-10, 3 IMO... your dipping down into the 5% margin to find a girl who has great overal qualities.

so yes, it is tougher to find those women... but i've dated them; and other things make it not work.... but each one was a keeper for some time... the meathod may not be perfect, but IMO it is damn good.

also, really, each catagory is subjective and relative to the man using it

The perfect girl is the one you can be absolutely yourself with, 24/7, and she would love every bit of you, and would never try to change you, and you guys are physically attracted to each other.

Basically a best mate that knows how to get your dick up whenever she feels like it.

It's easy to rate girls objectively (I have a few friends I would rate as physically 10's), but just because she's "rates" perfectly doesn't mean that she's perfect for you.

I mean, I have a friend that's physically stunning, a face that's attractive, and a lovely personality to boot... but... I could never date her, or think about dating her, because there's just no spark, and in order for me to even "create" that spark, I would have to stop acting like "myself", which is the worst thing you can do to yourself in the long run.

^^
that is the x-factor.... the chemistry between people... and that doesn't usually happen just by meeting somebody and talking for a while... to me, that can only be found during a few dates

ROFLMAO

^^ LOL!

lol and right there and then you know its not your lucky life :P

this girl ive been in love with for awhile is probably body 8, face 8 (both are influenced by my feelings for her though, like arman said you can see so much beauty in a person you love, wouldve been 7+ at first), personality 10^999 or close to that, i seriously cant think of anything negative without having to nitpick... i might not be able to say definitely she's perfect for me untill im 80, but i cant imagine any girl who'd be better for me... sad thing, she sees me as a very good friend only :P so not my lucky life either im afraid... :wink:

Dani its your chance of a life! Go tell her "he's fucking ghey!" and she's yours :wink: :P jk
"He" will ruin her life anyway(proably) if she will want to live with "him" anyways hoping that "he" will change... and she is not what "he" wants :?

you might wanna have a chat with him about how fair it is for a gay guy to have an affair with a girl?

Wear really tight pants everywhere you go and make sure to keep repeating "Hey, _____ you're really making me uncomfortable."

:wink:

^^^ :lol: :lol: :lol:

lol well maybe they / 1 of them doesnt wanna have sex before marriage? they still exist you know :wink:

Thats true but come on.. :lol:

lol i'd say gay would be quite a bit worse... at least she'll be having kids/sex some day with a strictly religious guy :P imagine if the gay guy would only want anal sex :P :lol:

Hahaha! :lol:

What I think the problem is is the definition of "perfect". You can use nthfinity's rating system and get a girl who is absolutely perfect, yet she would never be perfect for you, because you just don't see her that way. Perfection is subjective and idiosyncratic.

idio what?
anyway you're spot on, couple of years ago i met this girl with LOADS of model potential, 1 of the hottest girls ive ever seen, really nice girl also, but i was in no way attracted to her...

hot is only part of the scale, and you guys keep forgetting about the X factor... the chemistiry you discover once you go out (or fail to discover)

^Hey, you only asked if we've met the perfect girl, not if we've gone out with the perfect girl. You're not going to ask them out if there's no spark when you meet. Well, I don't do that.

how can you know if there is a spark if you have only just met her? that is the purpose of going on dates... to get to know the girl in question better, find out if there is any chemistry; and to get in thier pants :twisted:

you can't honestly tell me that you know there is instant chemistry between you and some girl you've never known, can you? There can be instant attraction, definately... but that is more on the lust side...

for example, i prefer dark - black haired girls who are relatively tall (above 5'5") with blue, or green eyes, and nice proportions.

I've dated outside the preferences, obviously.. redheads, brunettes, and a couple blonds to boot. Still none compare to the perfect 30... and I've known her long enough to know there is, or was something there.

I believe in first impressions. If I chat up a hot chick and she's really boring, then I probably would be a bit put off and wouldn't ask her out.

this girl i was talking about... i was interested in her personally from the 1st second, not because of her looks but i just noticed instantly she was very special

I met this girl recently, she really got me interested in herself, the x-factor was clearly visible. Im going out with her this Sunday so I hope for the best :mrgreen:

good luck! 8)

Thanks, hopefully I won't need it if you know what I mean :wink:

lol ofcourse not, your charms and good looks absolutely guarantee getting lucky! :D :P

LOL we'll see 8)

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^hahahaha! :lol:

You drank a leprechaun's blood?

:wink:

Go get 'em, tiger.

just what i was thinking. :P

yes yes.... so i've provided one now

http://img370.imageshack.us/img370/7514/k1oa4.th.jpg
:wink: i'll keep looking for more

http://img296.imageshack.us/img296/1...copywd7.th.jpg
on the far left :drool:
http://img294.imageshack.us/img294/2...copyuo8.th.jpg
more casual (aka, late night drinking before goign to the big house in the AM)

Looks like a nice girl nthfinity ! :D

Now don't let Bmuller get near her!

more then nice.... the photos don't do her justice, i used to have some more on the pc, but well.... hdd failure sucks :(

after i take care of magwheel's photos, i'll scan in the only photo i have with both of us together (remember, i wasn't into cameras and taking lots of photos until my sophmore year in college)

I beg to differ.. Love at first sight is rare.. and may not even be lasting. but it does exist. (Speaking from experience.. though oddly enough of the many relationships I've had, its happened only once.)

I'll say that from the first moment i saw this woman, i knew she was perfect... I dont know about love at first sight, but perhaps thats it? I mean... i've dreamed about this girl more then i care to mention :oops: :P

and... why the fuck you're here talking with a bunch of weirdos, nerds and geeks instead of stalking her????? :P

Yes, it's my g/f, hope to marry with her soon... :D