Bad times for me

[a007apl]

Well,
Thusday my son no lives more in my city, he goes :(
Now he lives with your grandmather in another city (more or less 3 hours, 350Km) :|

[ZfrkS62]

sad to hear that apl. Why is he going to live with his grandmother?

[Toronto]

sad to hear, why does he have to go?
school?

[ARMAN]

He moved with his mother, right? Sad to hear, visit him 1-2 a month thou.
How old is he btw?

[a007apl]

My son have 6 years old, he do'nt live more with the mother here because she now will study in one college and work too, no time for my son.
Me, works at the day and study at night no times too.
Because it, I'm think he lives with the greantmother its the best choice.
In 2 years I'm finished my college and he will comeback to me. :|

[Jabba]

Very sad...sorry to hear that batman :(

[ARMAN]

I hope you will have a chance to visit him as much as you can, he need it alot now cause his personality is building :)

[ZfrkS62]

well at least it's not a permanent thing. 2 years will go by pretty quick, and when you graduate it will be an even better day since he's coming back.

[dingo]

Sad news, I'm not a parent so I might not appreciate how much this hurts - hope you get through it and visit him as often as possible. :D


Now he lives with your grandmather in another city (more or less 3 hours, 350Km) :|

my grandmother lives in Switzerland, she didn't mention a thing. :P

(sorry, bad joke) ;)

[Minacious]

Sorry to read about your boy having to live with his grandmother, but fortunately he will be with family and not some random sitter.

[a007apl]

I like more he lives with the grandmather of than the mother, I hate my old wife :x

[ZfrkS62]

I like more he lives with the grandmather of than the mother, I hate my old wife :x

can't blame you at all for that sentiment

[sameerrao]

Sorry to hear this batman! It is painful separation but I am sure you will try to visit him somewhat frequently. I am sure it will work out in the end. Keep your spirits up.

[TransAm]

It is always sad to have to read bad news when it is a fellow JW member. 2 years will go by pretty quick for you both I hope, every day that passes is a day closer.

[corvette97]

Hate the divorce shit... :(

one thing is true after those 2 years you'll know how much you appreciate your boy...

try no to loose the father figure, that may be confusing for him and painfull for you :wink:

[yg60m]

Sorry to hear that mate, I have two childs and it would be very hard to not see them everyday :? Hopefully you have a support here, it is more important than one could think and I am sure it would help me in the same case ...

[TT]

I am sorry to read this Andre :(

Is this a temporary thing or it won't change now? Will you move there too one day?
Anyway, I grew up with my grandparents and it wasn't that bad :bah: ;) mom was 400 km away for some years (then ok, she came back) and dad some 50...

I just hope you'll be able to see him as often as possible

[a007apl]

what it worries me is that I more do not go to participate of the education of my son :?
Who must correct an error of a son is me and the mather, undestand me?
Now I will not be able and nor I will be knowing as it this being educated, I am not participating, this is my bigger concern :o

[TT]

Well, grandma was able to raise you so she should do a good job with the grandson too :)

[ARMAN]

^^ agree with TT :wink:

[antonioledesma]

don't worry 007... your kid will be just fine :)

[dutchmasterflex]

Sorry to hear that... Make sure you try to visit as much as possible! give up some of your hunting time :)