How to get an orgasm in a girl?

[SamuraiGti]

I know that the question is kinda stupid, but i can't get my gf to have an orgasm :oops:

i feel a little embarassed to ask something like this :oops:

give me answers lol

[KaBlookie]

experiment, and keep trying :-P

also, it might not be your fault...some meds can do that to women. I know cause my ex was on anti-depressants, which made it really difficult for me :roll:

[styla21]

Mate, try doing some research online. www.askmen.com has stacks of articles on women, relationships, sex etc.

Do some reading over there, buy a copy of mens health - anything - there are stacks of sites dedicated to this subject :fadein:
If all else fails.. buy a Ferrari :P

[antonioledesma]

first... don't be obsessed with that.
second... be patient
third... read mags, articles and ask your gf how does she likes it
the first orgasms are job for two instead of only one

[styla21]

first... don't be obsessed with that.
second... be patient
third... read mags, articles and ask your gf how does she likes it
the first orgasms are job for two instead of only one
That's great advice right there Antonio :D

[ae86_16v]

:) . . .

[ZfrkS62]

I know that the question is kinda stupid, but i can't get my gf to have an orgasm :oops:

i feel a little embarassed to ask something like this :oops:

give me answers lol

Learn to eat :wink:

Seriously though, if you're asking this then i am guessing you two haven't been together for long. It will take some patience and exploring. If you're too shy to flat out ask her for her input, then pat close attention to how she reacts to being touched in certain ways, and different places. As little as 1/4 inch can make all the difference.

It may just take a weekend of playing around. Whatever you do, don't get routine with it. You can't just find a sequence that gets her off and stick with it. you've got to keep her guessing.

all else fails, get her a vibrator and pay attention to how she uses it :lol: :wink:

Good luck dude.

[SamuraiGti]

LOL patience is what i've got more.

She is my gf for 2 years and some months. I explored in many ways, already spent many "hours" around trying and nothing.

Don't know if the problem is mine or is from her.

I just asked to see if I get some hints about it to try lol

[antonioledesma]

2 years and no orgasm??? how much time has passed since both of you had your first relation?

and... there isn't a written rule or 7-steps for making a girl orgasm everytime. What works with one girl, surely won't work with another, ie...
with one girl your trick was to eat her until she screamed wanting you and then making her orgasm while moving in a certain way and positon. And with another you had to fuck her with another position while she touched herself

[ZfrkS62]

:shocked!: 2 years? and nothing?? hmm...i'm guessing the problem is her :? by now you should have found something that works :| try having her get herself off and just paying close attention to what she does. :bah:

[SamuraiGti]

almost 2 years.

[Toronto]

2 years and nothing?.... there is way to many jokes there, my head is hurting :(

[antonioledesma]

does your gf really enjoys sex? You live in portugal and as I know a not very liberal country just like mine
some girls just don't want/desire to reach climax because they're afraid by many things

[ZfrkS62]

2 years and nothing?.... there is way to many jokes there, my head is hurting :(

i have the same issue but it took some guts to come out and ask so i think we should give him the benefit of the doubt here :wink: now had his g/f come on here saying he didn't know what to do...it would be all bets off :lol:


@ Ronin- :shock: that was a great post Ronin. hopefully that will help him out.

And samuri, once you get good at making her scream your name.. you could try this (http://www.very-koi.net/tutor/female/female.htm) I haven't been successful yet but this is not an easy feat to accomplish :wink:

[antonioledesma]

some girls because of their home and religious education don't let themselves free to enjoy the full pleasures of sex.
seen, heard, and know about it. My first gf had lots of fear of having an orgasm becuase some crap
and the new one, far more catholic than any other gf, she now thinks she has dissapointed her parents because she's no longer a virgin :|

all kinds of stuff, thoughts, ideas, fears, ignorance, etc tends to pollute a girl's mind

EDIT

LOL @ Z's post... had been a while since I saw a video of that kind :lol:

[bmagni]

hmm well, read what ronin posted, and i guess you should ask her too, thats a good option, she can guide you... :D

[SamuraiGti]

antonio, no problems with her about that. She wants to have an orgasm. She loves sex.

Ronin thanks fot that post, i'll try to learn more about that.

ZfrkS62, i'll read that too and try to do it eheh

[godspeed06]

i thought that it was pretty much proven that a percentage of women just cant have an orgasm from just intercourse... maybe she's just one of those.

[antonioledesma]

btw... has she ever reached an orgasm while masturbating?
if she has, any of you might be doing something wrong or just trying too hard. And an orgasm is worked slowly, carefully and takes some time
if she doesn't, she´s the one with the real problem

[SamuraiGti]

She doesn't like to masturbate herself, i'm the one who makes it lol and she never masturbated herself for enough time to have an orgasm.

One of the things that i think is that she might be one with that problem.

When i get time, i'll try again and see the results.

[antonioledesma]

has she ever described if she was on her way to have one? she was half -way back, 3/4's, almost there???

and if you can read spanish... read this. I have already putted it in practice :mrgreen: and...omg...

http://www.yonkis.com/literatura/literatura_comercono.htm

[SamuraiGti]

She doesn't know how to tell me if it is far or closer =\

Yes, i'll read, it isn't much different from portuguese :mrgreen:

[RC45]

Single word answer...

V-I-B-R-A-T-O-R

[HeilSvenska]

Anyone listen to Loveline with Adam Corolla and Dr. Drew? They talk about this every night.

[blinkmeat]

Can she get herself off?

[saadie]

is she pregnent :|

[dingo]

maybe a photo of her would help us help you..... :P

[exhausted mules]

the best thing you can do... is stop trying.

enjoy your girl. she's beautiful. amazing. you love her.

she's probably smarter than you and her body ten times more sensitive to being with you.

ever look for something and never found it? than one day while your watching tv you just happened to find it?

happens to me alllllll the time.

[loliea]

Have you tried having sex with her on top? That is almost always a sure thing, even for those that are "orgasmically challenged". Reason being is that for a woman to have an orgasm her clitoris must be stimulated, and the on-top position allows for the greatest clitoral stimulation. She will have to do all the moving rather than you.

Have her adjust her position and movements on top until she finds something that is just right. She'll know when it feels good and then she'll just keep repeating the movement until she climaxes. Make sure that you caress her back and her butt while she is moving. Women like that. Don't just grab her breasts. Keep trying this position and sooner or later it will happen for her... it always does.

[he7lius]

Try telling her to relax because if she is desperate or tense forget it.
Also i never came across a girl that doesn't like oral sex. Try this in many different position and if she is up for it u can try get stuff like cream, strawberries, honey etc. It's a great way to relax, u have a very funny and also messy time but i can tell you it's worth every sec.

Boa sorte. :D

[Global Warming]

Like Louis Armstrong said about jazz… “if you have to ask you will never know”.

[ZfrkS62]

Like Louis Armstrong said about jazz… “if you have to ask you will never know”.

Unlike music, these skills don't come naturally. If she isn't supplying any input, then how is he supposed to know what gets her off?

It really sounds as if she is committing the cardinal sin of a relationship between men and women: Expecting him to be a mind reader. WE FUCKING AREN"T!!!!!!! :lol:

[MercedeSC32/eSCalade]

i say you try the shocker...clip yur nails first though...and lots of spit...my girl loves it!!!

[ZfrkS62]

i say you try the shocker...clip yur nails first though...and lots of spit...my girl loves it!!!

:lol: i get the idea that she isn't really up for that one :lol:

[ZfrkS62]

two in the pink one in the stink (http://www.rotten.com/library/language/the-finger/shocker/) :wink: :|

[DeMoN]

Just ask her which way she liked it best or something... that way you will know what turns her on and do that more often. Try those condoms that are thick which will make you last long. It also helps if she doesnt have sex for a week or two.

[blinkmeat]

Actually I have your solution _____________ WHO CARES about her

As long as you get your fashizzle screw her shanizzile :mrgreen:

[ZfrkS62]

Actually I have your solution _____________ WHO CARES about her

As long as you get your fashizzle screw her shanizzile :mrgreen:

:slap: don't you EVER use that language on JW again :lol:

[blinkmeat]

Other suckas tend to love em, we just cop em and blow
Hos come, hos go, hos runnin ya slow~~ Snoop Dogg

He should know with the amount of ... well... believe me he knows what he's talking about. :)

[RC45]

i say you try the shocker...clip yur nails first though...and lots of spit...my girl loves it!!!

Pics - or STFU ......... :lol:

[ZfrkS62]

i say you try the shocker...clip yur nails first though...and lots of spit...my girl loves it!!!

Pics - or STFU ......... :lol:

Since it's a mod asking for pics he can't get in trouble for it :lol:

[blinkmeat]

Hahaha... the shocker... Give her the Donkey Punch too... or if you really want to get her hot the Cleveland. The Dirty Sanchez might work well too, but I don't recommend it until you've mastered the previous two.

This thread has... it's degenerate :)

[dangerously_cool]

Actually I have your solution _____________ WHO CARES about her

As long as you get your fashizzle screw her shanizzile :mrgreen:

:slap: don't you EVER use that language on JW again :lol:
x 2. If you can't to do it manually, which doesn't have anything to do with skill, just time, then I doubt it's you.

[Pokiou]

i got an idea.. setup a webcam give us the IP and we'll tell where your going wrong !!!

:mrgreen:

[ZfrkS62]

i got an idea.. setup a webcam give us the IP and we'll tell where your going wrong !!!

:mrgreen:

Why didnt anyone think of this before? :D

[SamuraiGti]

Thanks for the ideas guys!

LOL even if I had a webcam you won't be lucky with that :mrgreen:

[ZfrkS62]

well in that case, i volunteer to come down there and find out what's wrong withher :mrgreen: :twisted:

[Minacious]

And people say we the JW regulars are hostile and mean. Look at how we get together to help our brother in arms fight the good fight and crack his girl wide open. This is camaraderie at its best.

Samurai, play around with oral sex on the old lady. You can directly stimulate the clitoris and this might give you an open door into the room that is her climax. When you do it though, get your face in there good and far. Attack that clit. Many men play around with light playful licks, no, no, no. Get in there with your mouth around the clit. Surround that sucker. Use your lips to push her lips (hehe) away from the clit. Now take your tongue and experiment with different directions and forces. You will know what is working based on her actions. Do this for as long as you can. I must warn you though, your tongue and neck will get tired after a good while.

[ZfrkS62]

expanding on what minacious has suggested:

There is a little trick called the alphabet game. It's quite simple. all you do is trace out the letters of the alphabet on her clit with your tongue. go slow, fast, hard or soft. Whatever gets her the best sensation (again, you have to pay attention to her bodylanguage). Use capital or lower case, or a combo of the 2. You can even try sounding them out with your tongue still on her clit. The wet vibrations sent over your tongue should drive her up the wall. It may take a little practise :wink:

When you find something that is starting to work, stick with it but try different angles. As i stated in a previous post. .25 inches one way or the other means the diff between OH HMM and ho hum :wink:

Just keep us updated.

[nchs09]

fuk sake just stick it in her ass

[ZfrkS62]

fuk sake just stick it in her ass

PMSL!!

[nchs09]

:wtf:...

i dunno wut that means :(

but if it means sticking it in the p00per. u and me think alike.

[Pokiou]

i like the alphabet way .. thats a good way to i heard of that one previously .. hmm but other then that sticking ya finger in her wont do that trick ... its around the whole that is the main pleasure zone so like they said go hard with the tongue and write teh alphabet on her!!!!


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